The other option is to have an external control—typically located in the handle of your toy

There are two ways to control the vibrations, depending on the model of your rose vibrator. The most common way is to use a switch on the bottom of the toy's base. To turn it on, hold down that switch for three seconds; to turn it off again, hold down that switch for three seconds.The other option is to have an external control—typically located in the handle of your toy—that you can use with one hand while holding onto your partner during sex. This option makes it very convenient when you want hands-free stimulation during intercourse or oral sex without having to stop what you're doing! If you accidentally turn off this kind of controlled vibrator when using it internally (which happens sometimes), don't worry: just give its base another tap against its charging cable or another surface and it should start working again fairly quickly