How to talk about sex with your partner

`*How to talk about sex with your partner.* 1. Bring up the topic of sex casually and in a non-judgmental way: "I want to try something new in bed," or "I've been thinking about what we could do differently." This is important because if you bring it up in an aggressive way, you may put your partner on the defensive, which means they won't be open to hearing your thoughts or trying something new anymore. 2. Be specific about what you want to try: If it's couples vibrators, say "We should use a couples vibrator next time," not just "We need more toys." Your partner needs specifics so they can figure out how they fit into your desires (and vice versa). You don't want them feeling left out either! And remember that even though this might feel awkward at first—it'll get easier as time goes on!